T1 got into some serious trouble at school the other day. He was confused by the difference between being in control versus being independent. He was so busy arguing and throwing attitude at teachers, he eventually not only lost control of the situation but control of himself as well.
I can already hear some of you thinking, "Here it begins…This is a separation thing. The boy needs attention." That might be some of it. Let us remember, though, that he is 12 going on 28. Besides, I see this as a positive thing. T1 is learning to deal with things on his own. He would go through this no matter if I were at home or not. The important thing is he is surrounded by people that know him, love him and with momentary self-inflicted exceptions respect him.
He now understands a little bit better that the price of taking help is not paid for by loss of independence. I am not so naïve that he gets it completely; however, a day or two out of class on suspension will certainly give him some time to mull it over.
Title by The Violent Femmes
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